Somatic SEX COACHING
WHAT is somatic sex coaching?
Imagine a life that is centered around pleasure.
Pleasure is an act of resistance.
As an Erotic Blueprint® Coach, I am your guide to creating new passionate possibilities for a pleasure joy-filled life. Are you ready to center your desires and embrace the courage to unwind old stories and experiences that limit your ability to express and receive unconditional love? What could be possible if you put pleasure first?
The beauty of honoring our desires and centering pleasure is the growth and expansion we begin to experience in all areas of our lives. When we dare to create the lives we dream of, we throw away the masks that force us to contort into what others want us to be, and discover the beauty of being our most authentic selves.
And trust me, there is nothing sexier than being you.
THE EROTIC BLUEPRINTS®
Imagine being able to know and ask for exactly what you want, both in and out of the bedroom. Imagine being fully understood and fully understanding how to pleasure your partner. Imagine feeling seen and heard, and having support to work through challenges such as different sex drives, perceived incompatibility, as well as emotional struggles, unhealthy communication patterns, and internalized shame.
The Erotic Blueprints® were created by my mentor and somatic sexologist, Jaiya, who discovered that all bodies are wired differently when it comes to pleasure. She created the Erotic Blueprint Quiz® and the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course® that has helped thousands of epic humans understand their unique wiring for pleasure and have hotter sex lives.
I have seen these tools and practices transform lives. They have changed mine and I can’t wait to see what they do for you!
who is sex coaching for?
Sex Coaching is for anyone who wants to experience deeper states of intimacy and pleasure. This work is tremendously powerful for nurturing our relationships and can have a deep sustaining impact on us as individuals. It is for anyone who has struggled with body image, communicating desires, or reaching deep states of sexual satisfaction. It is for those of us who grew up in households that failed to provide healthy models of intimacy, or homes and cultures that fostered strong religious beliefs that led us to associate sexual desire with shame and fear. Sex coaching is for anyone who has experienced sexual trauma, or has struggled to know and understand their desires.
WHy SEX COACHING HELPS
For You
Uncover and reframe beliefs about sex that lead to shame and fear
Get support in transitioning gender identities or sexual orientation
Receive the forbidden kinky pleasures you have been fantasizing about
Embody erotic personas for greater play and mastery in your life
Feed each of your Erotic Blueprints® so that you never feel starving for affection again
Ignite passion and feel fulfilled in other areas of your life
For your Relationships
Understand your and your partners’ unique arousal pathways
Heal unprocessed emotional blocks and the junk you have been carrying around for years
Create solid consent containers and communicate boundaries
Practice empathy to hear and feel heard
Confidently express your needs and desires
Gain creative new skills for sexual mastery
Revitalize long-term partnerships with novelty, curiosity, adventure, and play
Support for exploring or transitioning to new relationship styles
ACCELERATED
EVOLUTION
SESSION
Schedule an Accelerated Evolution® session anytime to experience the power of this modality for yourself. You can book a single session anytime or sign up for a package. Sessions last 75 minutes and can be used to integrate blocks, set goals, and gain clarity on any issue.
SOMATIC
SEX COACHING
1-ON-1 SESSION
This format is ideal for those who want to jump into the work, yet may not feel ready to commit for a longer duration of time. Please note that single sessions do not include the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough® Course created by Jaiya.
Coaching
packages
1:1 & couples
Coaching packages are tailored to each client’s unique needs and include a lifetime membership to the Erotic Freedom Club, a virtual Erotic Blueprint® Community, Jaiya’s 8-Module Blueprint Breakthrough Course®, and Accelerated Evolution® processing techniques for integrating blocks.
“Before saying yes to working with Zhenya, I had just ended my marriage, I felt lost, and angry and did not desire sex. I did not know how to express my desires or ask for what I wanted. Body dysphoria left me feeling conflicted about how I wanted to receive pleasure, and I had a lot of confusion about my sexual orientation, my body, my gender, or how to communicate any of those things to potential partners.
Zhenya’s support and the Erotic Blueprint® framework helped me discover who I am as a sexual being and helped me experience true embodiment. I learned how to create a consent container, set boundaries, and slow down, which I found was vital for my energetic blueprint. I learned how to truly “feed” my unique blueprints and receive pleasure. Most importantly, I realized that I was never broken! Now, I know that pleasure and sex aren’t something that only happens during sex, but something I could expand into every moment of my life. I have a language to communicate my needs, desires, and limits, in and out of the bedroom.” - Ryan
Accessibility & Equity
My work is rooted in the anti-patriarchal, anti-capitalist, and anti-racist practices of reciprocity and collective liberation. In acknowledging systemic oppression and the unequal distribution of wealth and privilege based on race, gender, class, and ability, I will always keep offerings financially accessible with affordable pricing and payment plans. Investing in our sexual health, and emotional and spiritual wellbeing in late-stage capitalism is an act of resistance. We have been taught to value productivity at the expense of our minds and bodies. These important practices have been suppressed, undervalued, and even criminalized. Those of us who work in the field of somatic sexology continue to face discrimination and censorship. It is tender to hold these truths, while also honoring the tremendous value, personal investment, and wholehearted dedication it takes to continue making this important work available to all.
Why is working with me different?
I am committed to sharing my offerings consensually, without any pressure or playing on pain points to create a feeling of urgency. I do not resonate with these kinds of sales tactics. If you reach out to book a discovery call with me, know that I am truly interested in supporting you even if that means referring you to someone who may be better equipped to address your unique needs. I want us to walk into our agreement feeling confident, grounded, and inspired.
